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Hilary Faxon pm, Apr 27, These two s follow a chain of official administration remarks aimed at assuring us that Yale is addressing concerns about its sexual environment highlighted by the DKE chant and Title IX complaint. But the problem is as much cultural and individual as it is institutional: by creating and participating in an atmosphere that encourages us to view ourselves as sexual objects and others to do the same, Exotic Erotic showcases not just a lot of sweaty undergraduate flesh, but also some of the problems of how our campus and generation think about sex.

I am not implying that there is a direct relationship between an event where people are wearing lingerie and incidents of sexual harassment.

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Nor am I a prude. Sexual liberation means a change in social thought, codes of behavior and traditional gender roles. It means, to me, doing what you want with conscious choice and with the consent and enthusiasm of your partners. Exotic Erotic is an outrageous manifestation of the worst aspects of the current system, one that too often makes sex a commodity, an issue of power, and a source of anxiety.

To help illustrate what turns me off about the event, let me tell you what turns me on, and what Exotic Erotic is not.

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Exotic Erotic is not a naked party. In fact, it may be the anti-naked party.

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So is making out. Ditto, penises. Not so at Exotic Erotic — the atmosphere is one of barely-repressed desire, competition and certainly not conversation. Exotic Erotic is also not a naked library run. Both involve gazing — a lot of my flabbergasted footies got to see all of my parts this past winter, and many readers were probably staring along with them. The naked run is about challenging convention playfully, giving out candy and going clothes-free in the library at a time of high stress.

Like Exotic Erotic, it encourages voyeurism, but it does so within certain limits and without an explicit sexual element.

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Exotic Erotic is also not a social taboo-breaking, sex positive experience. Sexual experimentation is great: it means ignoring cultural norms and instead respecting the desires and boundaries we determine for ourselves and share with each other. Whatever the activity, it should involve active decision-making and communication.

Exotic Erotic severely inhibits these: once you make the choice to walk in the door, anyone can watch you, touch you, try to take you home. Which le to a minor and sort of mean point: Exotic Erotic is wimpy. I understand that it can take a lot of guts to go out in nothing but a pair of tiny spandex booty shorts. But I think it takes more guts to ask someone out on a date, to experiment with someone of your gender, to speak up at an open session to the Advisory Committee on Campus Climate, or to say no, whether it is to sex or to a chant.

And these are the more important kind of guts, the ones we need to encourage a positive sexual culture. I want to live at a Yale that is comfortable, safe and sexually liberated.

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To me, that means avoiding events deed to make me a sexual object and seeking situations where I can choose how I display my body and sexuality. I look really good in a corset — but you should have to earn it. Tweets by yaledailynews.

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